Often twins perform certain roles in pair - one leader, the other is subordinate one is cheerful and sociable, the other - closed and thoughtful and so on. The practice knows those cases where one twin can read and write, the other - to believe. Most often the role of the strongest, smartest pair play firstborn kid - born it weighs more and faster development. This should in no way be abused, as otherwise you risk to form in the smaller role of tinker, loser.
Distribution of roles within the couple became under the influence of various factors - from natural talents to the desire of the parents - and long established. Set roles begin to blur into adulthood when the twins gain more autonomy, psychological begin to separate from each other, turn into autonomous, independent of "co-twins' personalities. In children exacerbates feelings of rivalry; beginning endless conflicts that often grow into violent fights and insults. This happens especially often in raznoyaychnite twins from earlier and more are starting to feel their differences. It also should not worry parents. No sense to overdo it with the penalties of children and without them is hard enough. With time everything will pass, this time you just have to experience. At such times it is important to ensure children do not go to extremes in order not to spoil their relationship irreparably. Help them to discuss their problems and seek solutions, while not forgetting to remind them what a huge lucky they are to have at his co-twin, who has been with them since birth and who can always rely on, because love them and support like no other.
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