Specifics of the twins-third of

Duplication problems

All issues that come before the fledgling parents in families with twins and sharpen appear much brighter. Twins require twice as much attention, care, effort and of course financial hardship - ultimately needed two beds, two sets of clothes, toys and so on. There are also problems specific to twins. One of them, particularly in identical twins is that in the early days and even months babies can hardly be distinguished from one another. At first a few basic techniques in would be handy, as to detect characteristic mole twins to dress in different clothes or to put tags with their names and t.n.t.
  It is possible that the mother of newborn twins to haunt remorse that as it does not like children. To develop feelings of love and affection to the child usually takes four months. For mothers of twins, this period lasts almost a year since due to severe pregnancy and subsequent birth, they with fatigue faster and are under more pressure. Moreover, from the beginning the mother of the twins feel affection for two children at once, and only later began to love them separately.

The third is redundant ?!

If the family already has a child, the question that most concerns parents of twins is how it will accept the new members of the family? This is indeed a serious problem. The older child is no longer the center of attention. It begins to be required to fulfill certain obligations, which are sometimes quite boring and annoying. The child can no longer play and fuss when he or fuss fuss, as the rhythm of the whole house is consistent with the regime of twins. Often he "moved" in the other room, changed his bed, but if too little went right for a while with her grandmother or parents send him to kindergarten. All these changes cause a negative reaction in the child. It begins to seem that the good weather is gone, he no longer loved, and place in the hearts of his parents is occupied by new babies. No wonder that in such moments the kid take desperate attempts to bring attention to parents on themselves - no longer dress himself alone refuses to eat and so on. Sometimes a child becomes jealous parents of twins offend babies to hate them and even trying to remove them. It is important that these times parents understand that the kid is not guilty, it is also very difficult. He himself needs to feel the love and support of their parents. It is good at such moments his parents to give due attention - to discuss his problems, showing that they understand how difficult it is; openly express regret that he can not spend more time; with opportunity to go with him to walk alone, without the twins. At any cost should be encouraged him positive attitude and attention to the twins. Let the kid knows that when the babies grow up, they will become best friends will love and respect, and he will take care of them and protect them all together will be the happiest family. The older child should have the right to privacy of their own space in the house and personal toys that you do not have to share with the twins, if it itself does not wish to do so. The kid should not be forced to go to bed at the same time with the babies, let's stay longer with you. Although the background of the newborn, toddler seems even more, remember that it can not grow at once in accordance with your requirements.